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Tuesday, February 23, 2010

The 4 G's: God is Good















Recap from last week
• Head, Heart and Hands
• Behind every sin is a lie about God
• God is great – so I don’t have to be in control

God is Good (outline)
I. I Need…
a. What needs do all humans have?
b. Why did God give us needs?
i. To reveal his character (good)

ii. So that we would look to him to provide

“Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the father of heavenly lights” James 1:17

I Tim 6:17 “17Command those who are rich in this present world not to be arrogant nor to put their hope in wealth, which is so uncertain, but to put their hope in God, who richly provides us with everything for our enjoyment.

Do you believe that everything good you have comes from God? Even the air you breathe? Does it create in us a posture of thankfulness? Every meal, every sip of water, every breath, is an opportunity to remember that God is good.

iii. To remind us of our need for him

“Ask and it will be given to you. Mt.7:7”
“You do not have because you do not ask God” James 4:2

iv. Our physical needs are signposts to a deeper spiritual need. Let’s read a story that illustrates this truth for us.

II. Samaritan woman (John 4)
a. Read story
b. Questions
i. Where was this woman going to for satisfaction? What was she looking for?
ii. What was the result?
iii. Where did Jesus point her to? (to himself, to worship the true God)
iv. What does this teach us about God? (That he gives true satisfaction through Jesus) Jesus is the ultimate demonstration of God’s goodness. We have a need. God satisfies it.
v. (God’s Spirit)

III. God is Good, so we don’t need to look elsewhere for satisfaction.
a. Idolatry is when we turn a good thing into an ultimate thing

1st Commandment: “Do not have any other God’s before me…You shall not bow down to them or worship them; for I the Lord your God am a jealous God.” Ex. 20:3, 5. (Same Slide)

i. Sin arises when we desire something else more than we desire God.
ii. In our hearts we worship what we desire rather than worshiping God
iii. God is good VS What I desire is bigger and better than God, I believe it offers more than God offers
iv. What is your “if only” statement? If only… I would be happy. Again, not all desires are bad, but when we turn a good thing into an ultimate thing, it becomes sin.

What are some things we look to for satisfaction instead of believing that God is good, going to him and trusting his provision?

What is the result?

Why do we keep going back to those things?

What would our lives look like if we truly believed that God is good, so we don’t have to look elsewhere for satisfaction?


God desired so much to be our satisfaction that Jesus sacrificed himself so that we could be brought near to God, and sent his very Spirit to live in us. Jesus Christ himself lives in us through his spirit. What else do we need?

IV. God is good, but he is not a divine waiter…
a. True needs vs perceived needs (you do not receive because you do not ask rightly)
b. If I do not have this, God is not good. If this happens, God is not good…
i. “God is not the key to the good life, he IS the good life… God must be desired for his own sake, not as the secret of worldly success.” – Tim Chester
1. Jesus says: I am the way the truth and the life.
2. Jesus says: I have come to give life, abundantly
ii. Paul
2 Cor. 11:23-29 "23Are they servants of Christ? (I am out of my mind to talk like this.) I am more. I have worked much harder, been in prison more frequently, been flogged more severely, and been exposed to death again and again. 24Five times I received from the Jews the forty lashes minus one. 25Three times I was beaten with rods, once I was stoned, three times I was shipwrecked, I spent a night and a day in the open sea, 26I have been constantly on the move. I have been in danger from rivers, in danger from bandits, in danger from my own countrymen, in danger from Gentiles; in danger in the city, in danger in the country, in danger at sea; and in danger from false brothers. 27I have labored and toiled and have often gone without sleep; I have known hunger and thirst and have often gone without food; I have been cold and naked. 28Besides everything else, I face daily the pressure of my concern for all the churches. 29Who is weak, and I do not feel weak? Who is led into sin, and I do not inwardly burn?"

If we look in the following chapter, Paul continues on saying that in order that he wouldn't begin to think too highly of himself for persevering through all these trials, God gave him "a messenger from Satan"and, though Paul asked, God would not take it away. God's response was: 9"My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." [And Paul Says] “Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me.”

God's goodness was not dependent on his willingness to alleviate Paul's suffering, but was proved in his grace and his provision of strength to enable Paul to persevere. God did not offer Paul a comfortable life; he offered him Himself.

iii. “God always seeks the best for his people, and that best is himself. Famine, thirst, plagues and conflict are acts of divine love when their aim is to bring us back to God.”
1. Come to me, all who are weary, and I will give you rest.
2. I am the bread of life, the living water
Do you really believe that God Himself is Good? That He alone can truly satisfy the deepest longings of your soul?
Can you say with the psalmist, “As the dear pants for water, so my soul longs after you, Oh, Lord.”

Are you drinking out of the toilet or out of the spring of living water?


V. God created us with needs so that we would look to him to fulfill them and so that he can show his goodness by satisfying those needs. His creation is a part of that provision, and he gives us good gifts to satisfy those needs. But ultimately, those physical needs and provision point us to our deeper need for God himself. Do you believe that God is good? That he has given you everything you need for life and godliness, as his word says? Or are you believing that his provision is not enough? That if you only had that boyfriend, that drug, that new TV, that perfect family, that prestigious job, you would be satisfied?

What do you habitually go to in your life for satisfaction? Where is my discontent showing my lack of belief in the goodness of God?

How do we change? I begin by confessing to God that I have not believed that he is good, but have believed that something else is better than he is and that he has not provided what I need.

Repent in your heart and remind yourself that God is good. When that puff of marijuana is calling, when you are tempted to relieve your heartache through food, sex, money or alcohol, talk to yourself. Tell yourself that God is good, and that you don’t have to look elsewhere for satisfaction. And then do it! Go to him. And the more you do, the more you will be satisfied in him.

Change is about enjoying the freedom from sin and delight in God that God gives to us through Jesus.

The 4 G's: God is Glorious














1. God is Glorious: So we don’t have to fear others
(-)
What is Glory? (CROWD)
- The way something or someone truly is
- The source,
- The ultimate reality
- Jesus is the “glory” of God
- To Give glory to God is to say what’s true & ultimate reality about God
- To live for his glory…
- To manifest the hidden nature of something

In Hebrew Glory = “Weight, heaviness”

We sin because we crave the approval of people or fear their rejection

We see their glory as more glorious than God…
Their opinion weighs more than God’s…
They matter more than God does to us…
(We don’t see ourselves thinking this way, but we do…all the time)

We “Need” the acceptance of others

When we do that, we’re controlled by them…

The Bible’s term for this is ‘fear of man’.
(-)
Proverbs 21:39… the fear of man lays a snare, but whoever trusts in the Lord is kept safe.
(-)
Where do we see this fear of man showing up in the Story of God?
- Adam & Eve
- Abraham (wife/sister)
- Moses
- Leah (never got the love of Jacob… so tried to through baring him children… listen to their names: Reuben “Now my husband will love me,” Simeon “Because God has heard I’m hated, he’s given me another,” Levi “THIS Time my husband will become attached to me,” and finally Judah “Now I will praise God.”

(-)
What does the fear of man look like? (CROWD) (What do our actions look like when we need approval or fear rejection?)
- ‘Needing’ something from others
- Make fun of others?
- Working for approval? …or not working…? Lol!
- Hiding weaknesses
- Internalizing conflict
- Won’t or will say things for approval
- Build ministries for approval
- Susceptibility to peer pressure
(-)
What has the “fear of man” produced in your life? Heart?
- Self-hatred
- Self-doubt
- Disingenuous
- Pride
- Bitterness
- Inactivity
- Emotional Fluctuation (how they see me affects me & controls me) but our ID is supposed to be rooted in Christ
- Double-mindedness
- Needing More
- Over-committed
- Fear of exposure
- Embarrassment
- Lies & exaggerations to make self look good
- Comparisons to others
- People make us jealous, anxious, angry… control our emotions
- Resentment
- Withholding
- Avoid confrontation
- Craving approval
- Behave differently around certain people

Who or What do you look to for approval?
They are who’s most glorious in our lives.
- When we need approval, we have to keep feeding it…it’s cyclical
- Regardless of how much we do, we’ll still feel unrest
- Often, If we feel accepted or approved, we’ll move on to someone else to get more approval
- Frustration with relationships because they cannot provide what we “need.”

These are ALL results of not TRULY believing in our hearts that God is Glorious!

-SELF ESTEEM-
So what do we do? What does our culture tell us to do?
(-)
We try to overcome this by building more self-esteem… but we become dependant on people or things to boost our self-esteem…like a drug

Or we use the language of ‘need’.
We elevate good desires (for love, affirmation, respect) to needs without which we think we cannot be whole.
We talk about ‘needing’ the approval or acceptance of other people. But our true need is to glorify God and love other people.

We need to see the Glorious One as the Glorious One

Everything (including healing) starts with God, not us

(Putting yourself in the center…boosting your self-esteem only increases the addiction to our false gods)

We need to get our identity from God, not man!

EXP: We see this right…

The girl who gets her identity from that guy or that relationship… so she does anything (including putting up with abuse/neglect) she can to keep it going… we call this co-dependence in our culture

Or the son desperately seeking his father’s approval
Or the girl who’s emotions are governed by the guy in her life…

The teenager who gives in to peer pressure…

You can even fall into the trap of believing God is not glorious in the name of religion! …

[Anchor Gaslamp “Seeker Sensitive” Example… started with culture instead of the Gospel… Didn’t teach on things like giving – we didn’t want it to be a stumbling block to Christ…”

Imagine if Jesus ministry was shaped like that…shaped by the fear of man
- He Would have never told people to leave their lives and sacrifice all to follow him
- He wouldn’t have gone into the temple kicking over tables
- He wouldn’t have had that pivotal moment when He said “I am the bread of Heaven…” “…Will you leave also…”]

How do we get free from this cycle?
(-)
The answer to the ‘fear of man’ is the Fear of God.

To fear God is to respect, worship, trust and submit to God.

We need to grow our vision & view of God!
(This is why praise is so powerful… It reminds us of how Amazing God is…)

To fear God is to respect, worship, trust and submit to God.
It is the proper response to his glory, holiness, power, love, goodness and wrath.

Fear of God displaces the fear of man

Isa 40:25 - "To whom will you compare me?
Or who is my equal?" says the Holy One.

Ps. 27:1 – The Lord is my light… Who shall I fear?

Whoever/ whatever it is that we fear… imagine them, then next to them imagine the Glorious God… how does that compare? Can they lay down their life, pick it up again & hand it to you? Can they form the universe?

Why do we keep putting others before God? (CROWD?)
- Our belief has slipped
- Not finding our ID in Christ
- Not TRULY believing God is Glorious in our hearts
- We must remember how Glorious our God is!

[[Do you realize how much of an offense that is to God (to stand next to anyone/anything and say “yeah…that’s more glorious than you God”) we need to start by admitting we realize how off we are, and repent… repent by focusing on God’s glory and asking him to give you a vision of Him that’s greater than anything else. It’s a form of idolatry…
- I’m only nice to you for your approval… means I’m using you…it’s sick.
- I don’t need their approval, so I treat others like crap…]]

So we shouldn’t strive in any relationships w/ man or God.
We have our ID through Christ, so we walk in love without need of approval… we don’t work ourselves to death because God has already approved us!
(-)
Do you believe that the most glorious being in the universe is pleased w/ you because of what Christ did???

My joy is not affected by people or circumstances, but it is SECURE in Christ…
(-)
If this is true, (that God is Ultimate Glory), how would that affect your heart?
- Giving
- Hospitality
- Loving freely
- Stable people…not double-minded or tossed about
- Authentic
- Interested in each other
- Easier to give God glory
How would it affect our community?
How would it affect our city?